Peering down the slippery slope

February has been a funny old month, and not really one I want to repeat – though looking back, my February 2017 blog is entitled February Blues so I think perhaps this is normal.

It started with a trip to Sussex where I spent the night before Alan‘s funeral with friends. That was obviously a delight; sadly the following day wasn’t – for all sorts of reasons. Too many people I know have been having a tough time lately, I wish I had a crystal ball to see what lies ahead.

So, leaving all that behind, work has been super-busy. I’m almost tempted to count up the number of words I have written in the last 4 weeks – but might faint with exhaustion if I did. If only some of them were on my barely started novel, but that is again on the back burner.

I have, however, finally caught up with things like painting the stairs, clearing the garage (the car is now under cover for the first time since I inherited it) and steam cleaning the kitchen floor tiles – that’s 4 hours of my life I won’t get back. On the basis that I have no plans to do it again any time soon I have invested in a huge rug which now covers most of the tiles.

I’ve even done a fair bit of walking, including a lovely stomp along Thornham beach with Henry (Musketeer top commentator/ controller) and the very cute Stiltyman before a quick dip into The Lifeboat for ‘refreshments’, and a marathon 10k walk along the coastal path from Wells to Morston with Andrew (owner of Shanty), culminating in a delicious lunch at The Anchor.

Norfolk very much had her best clothes on for both occasions – hard to believe as I look out at several feet of snow – the lane is buried by drifts deeper than I am tall. I am already starting to go stir crazy and think I will be snow bound several days yet. Shame I failed to get provisions in!

Before the arrival of ‘The Beast’ there were some fun dinners, Lulu’s birthday lunch, and the Musketeer Events volunteers party. With just 4 weeks until Burnham Market International I feel very much on the slippery slope (no ski-ing pun intended…). Is it too soon to say ‘roll on October?’

Yabber Yabber Yabber

After such a sad end to 2017, 2018 started in dramatic style when half way round a hack on New Year’s Day George suddenly went hopping lame – literally could barely put one of his hind legs on the ground. We were in the middle of nowhere, but fortunately not alone – Sarah was a great phone call interceptor as I blubbed into George’s mane thinking the worst. It was a very long, slow hobble back to the yard, arriving as the vet pulled in.

Total mystery. A good dose of bute and the next day he was absolutely fine. I can only think that he must have trapped a nerve, and then untrapped it. He has now reverted to retard status, belying his 21 years and making me hold on tight! Blummin horses.

I seem to have clocked up a few miles since New Year’s Day, starting with a trip to Wiltshire to interview Jane Holderness-Roddam for BHS Magazine. What a delight – I spent a very happy couple of hours at her kitchen table whilst she regaled me with wonderful stories from 50 years ago.

The following day I met up with new web client Flora Harris, for a WordPress lesson, before heading to Charlotte & Pete’s for the weekend. Charlotte pulled out all the stops with a great dinner party on the Saturday followed by a big lunch on the Sunday, filled with old friends of mine. Her boys were there too (boys? they are in their 20s) and my godson had me in stitches. It was a perfect 4 days.

I ventured down to London shortly after, for a feast of tapas with Hils (Chateau Bonkers chatelaine) and then met up with Clare (of Shanty the Highland cow fame) for more food, wine and the theatre. We saw a play called Beginning, on now at the Ambassadors Theatre – and if you get a chance to go, take it.

No sooner was I back in Norfolk than my best friend from school arrived for the weekend. Even more chat marathons. And then to Scotland…. although this was work, brainstorming ideas with a couple of clients. By the time I got home I was totally talked out.

The month wrapped up with some fun flying (yep, I can still land successfully) and the Musketeer Events christmas party – dinner at The Duck, Stanhoe. Truly delicious and huge fun. My ‘quiet time’ doesn’t feel to have been all that quiet…

The White Rabbit Queen

MalagaWhere did January go? I don’t seem to have drawn breath and tomorrow it will be February. Christmas was to be got through rather than celebrated – I can be massively anti-social at times and this was one of them, though it was good to spend the time in Norfolk for the first time.

The highlight of the festive season was winning a totally random ‘white rabbits’ competition with a very old boyfriend… it happens once a month and has been going on, with the odd gap, for over 25 years. New Year’s Eve was the ‘big’ one and to his intense annoyance I pipped him at the post – girl power 🙂

Things then perked up even more with a trip to Malaga, chaperoning my flying godson. It was so good to see blue sky and feast on some delicious tapas after the filthy weather we’d had here. Tom got some flying in and I eventually cracked the basics of navigating the town – with no help from an intermittent sat nav in the hire car (on day one I had to resort to paying a taxi driver Eu5 so that I could follow him back to the hotel!)

On my return it was finally D-Day – or more accurately G-Day. Whilst I was due to start riding George in December he had one last attempt at self-harm, shattering that dream. We are now back in action, albeit only walking for a few weeks. I have barely stopped smiling since – even when he does his unexploded time bomb impersonation.

Work has really kicked off; meetings with Musketeer about Burnham Market International, trips to web clients Piggy French and Oliver Townend, and a potential new press officer job meeting in the Midlands. Neil came up trumps when we had a short-notice e-commerce website to do – Luminosity, headed up by my GPC ‘boss’ Andrea, launched its Hi Viz business at BETA to great acclaim.

More new websites and web re-designs are in the pipeline for February and before I know it the eventing season will have started. It’s a good thing that kick boxing classes have started again – fitness levels need upping!